11 Things I’ve Learned About Summer Style Over 50
Summer style in your 50s is a whole different ball game. When I first started this blog, it was because I realized how hard it was navigating fashion once you hit your 40s and beyond, suddenly, you’re not dressing young anymore, but you certainly don’t want to look old and frumpy! It seemed like everyone had an opinion on what we were ‘supposed’ to wear, and honestly, it just added to the confusion. These days, what used to work doesn’t always cut it anymore, and I’m all about staying cool, feeling comfortable, and still looking put together. Over the years, I’ve figured out a few things that have made summer dressing a lot easier.
Today, I’m sharing the summer style lessons I’ve learned the hard way, the ones that actually work when you’re over 50 and want to feel good walking out the door.
11 Things I’ve Learned About Summer Style Over 50
1. Comfort is Key
These days, if it’s not comfortable, it’s not coming home with me. When it’s hot and sticky outside, I want breathable fabrics, loose fits, and shoes I can actually walk in. My DIL and I were just talking about this over the weekend. She said she wore shoes even when they weren’t comfortable, just because they were stylish…but not anymore.
I’ve learned that style and comfort can go hand in hand. A breezy sundress, a soft cotton tee, or a good pair of sandals can look just as polished as something dressier. When I’m comfortable, I feel more like myself, and that always looks better than anything I wore just to suffer through.
2. Fabrics really do make a difference
For years, I didn’t think twice about what my clothes were made of. If it was cute and on sale, I was wearing it. But I’m trying to pay attention to the fabric that items are made from. Polyester and other synthetics might be fine in the winter, but in July? No thank you, unless it is really, really, cute. Lol! I’m still a work in progress, but I’ve finally understood why I felt hot and sticky every time I wore certain tops outside.
Now, I try to reach for breathable fabrics like linen, cotton, bamboo, and rayon, especially in the heat of summer. They let your skin breathe and keep you from overheating, which is half the battle when you’re trying to look polished in the middle of a heat wave.
I wrote a whole post about why linen dresses are the secret to looking pulled together in summer. Linen might wrinkle, but it always looks intentional and elevated. And if you haven’t tried a good pair of cotton pants lately, check out this post. The right pair makes all the difference when you want to stay cool but still feel put together.
3. You don’t have to hide your skin
For a long time, I thought that getting older meant covering up. I figured I’d be wearing long sleeves and capris forever. But honestly, the older I get, the less I worry about what people think.
If it’s hot outside, I wear a sleeveless dress. If I feel good in a pair of shorts, I’m wearing them. Nobody is keeping score. Showing a little skin in summer isn’t just okay, it’s practical. And there’s something empowering about embracing your body just as it is today.
Ready to shop for some shorts? Head over to The Best Length for Shorts Over 50: Finding a Flattering Fit or The Best Way To Style White Shorts For Summer
4. Color makes everything more fun
If you’ve been around here long enough, you know I don’t shy away from color. In fact, I’ve always been drawn to bright, happy hues. There’s just something about putting on a coral top or a turquoise dress that instantly lifts my mood. And summer is the best time to go all in.
If you’ve been sticking to safe shades, try stepping out with something a little brighter. You might be surprised how much you love it. If you’re ready to add some color to your closet, grab one of these Colorful Summer Dresses for Women Over 50.
5. No one’s really looking at you in a swimsuit
I used to worry about how I looked in a swimsuit. I’d think about my thighs, my tummy, or whether anyone would notice the parts of me I usually keep covered.
But the truth is, most people are too busy enjoying themselves to care. They’re swimming, relaxing, and chatting with friends. They aren’t analyzing what anyone else is wearing. And if they are? That says more about them than it does about you.
Find a swimsuit that fits and makes you feel good, then go enjoy your summer.
You can find some of my favorite flattering and affordable bathing suits for this year in this post and this one.
6. Accessories are your secret weapon
When it’s too warm to layer, accessories really shine. I love straw totes, raffia belts, and statement sunglasses this time of year. You can wear the same white dress over and over, but with different shoes and jewelry, it feels brand new.
Looking to finish off your outfit with the perfect bag or hat? I’ve rounded up some go-to summer bags and totes, and stylish sun hats in these posts.
7. White clothes aren’t off-limits
A lot of women over 50 shy away from white because they worry it’s not flattering or it’ll add extra pounds. But I’ve found that a good pair of white pants or a crisp white top can actually be very flattering in summer. The key is finding the right fabric and fit. I look for thicker materials that aren’t see-through and cuts that give me room to move. *Wear nude colored undergarments so they don’t show through the fabric. Don’t wear white; it will show, which makes no sense to me.
Curious how I style white for summer? I’ve put together some white spring and summer outfits in these posts:
8. Don’t be afraid to size up
The number on the tag doesn’t mean a thing. If sizing up means the clothes fit better and I’m more comfortable, then that’s what I’m doing.
No one knows what size you’re wearing except you, and no one cares. What people do notice is when something is too tight, pulling, or riding up where it shouldn’t be. I’d rather wear a size that fits and flatters than squeeze into something just because the smaller number makes me feel better in the moment.
9. You only need one or two great sandals
I used to buy a bunch of new sandals every year, thinking I needed every color. Now I focus on finding one or two pairs that are really comfortable and go with everything. A neutral wedge and a flat sandal are usually all I need. Bonus points if they slip on and off easily and don’t leave me with blisters.
Need help finding a comfy, cute sandal for summer? I’ve got you covered, check out my sandal guides here.
10. Thigh chafing is no joke
I don’t know who decided we were all supposed to have a thigh gap, but I’ve never had one, and I’m doing just fine. Still, when the weather heats up and I’m wearing dresses, that uncomfortable rubbing can sneak up fast.
The good news is, there are easy fixes. I keep a few pairs of slip shorts on hand, and they make wearing a dress so much more comfortable. They’re lightweight, breathable, and stay in place. I’ve also used anti-chafing balms when I don’t want the extra layer.
11. Confidence is the best thing you can wear
The biggest thing I’ve learned? The way you feel in your clothes matters more than the clothes themselves. If you like what you’re wearing and feel comfortable in it, that energy shows up everywhere you go.
I don’t follow every trend, and I don’t dress like I did at 25. But I’ve figured out what works for me, and that’s made all the difference.
What have you learned about your summer style over the years? Drop a comment below and share your favorite tip, lesson, or outfit. We can all learn from each other.
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😊love all the dresses and agree with you about wearing what you feel good in!
Great advice. Love tank dress.
😊I agree with everything. However I have more than 2 sandals. Lol. I’ve never had a problem with thigh chafing and my thighs aren’t skinny.
😊 found it.
Great post. We all need to be happy in our own skin. I loved the white dress. I have it in pink and it’s so comfortable.
🙂 Found it! You look gorgeous in the white tank sundress!
Tanya… the pajamas are just beautiful! Will you please share the size you ordered. Thanks!
Love the sundress. 😊
🙂 Don’t you wish we would of dound the comfort in our own skin years ago? I’m 75 and still care about staying current , but also feel you don’t like my arms etc…….oh well
🙂 I adore this post! Great reminder that comfort in your own skin is key!
🙂 Great advice for anyone of any age, I think!
😊Love linen. I loved most of the options you had today.
Great Post thank you!! 🙂
🙂 The white tank sundress looks very comfortable!I like the platform sandals as well.
Great post! Thanks.
🙂 Great advice. Comfort and wear what you like.
Yes, yes, all of these are things I have learned as I’ve grown up. Especially the colors help my mood! Thank you for these reminders, Tania. By the way, you look very good in the swimsuit!!
Ah, thanks. Swimsuits are not my favorite item.
😊 the first picture with the blue dress and beige sweater and tote.
Thanks for a great post. I agree with all 11 suggestions. I decided a few years ago that your age doesn’t determine if you can wear sleeveless tops or dresses and shorts are okay for older ladies! I am careful, however, that the fit is correct if we want to look our best.
Love the white dress!! I wear white a lot during the summer months. Enjoyed this post!!
🙂 Such wonderful advise.
😀 great tips! Funny- I just asked chat for a skin care routine as well. Lol. Here’s to looking 5 minutes younger! 🥂
☺️ I’m a big woman, but I wear clothes that fit, and I love to wear white in the warmer months. In Texas, that’s a lot of months!
😃 I am learning to not be so self conscious about my skin even though my legs have lots of permanent bruises all over them, and my back is anything but clear & smooth like a baby’s bottom. Fabric really does have an impact on how cool we can feel. The matching shorts set I wore today was not it of breathable fabric, so I was feeling cooler. But the color of it was necessary since I was going to be handling dirty bags of lawn soil. While I have no desire to dress like I’m in my 20’s (I’m 68), I do strive to look put together and stylish.
I’m trying to give myself grace, too.
😊 Your advice rings true all around. For me, the best tip is to buy the right size even if the number is not what you want it to be. Clothes that fit well are what works best.
What great advice! These outfits look great and inspire us to wear what looks good on us and, more importantly, lets us feel confident in our own choices. Thank you!
😀. Excellent advice. Thanks, Tania!
🙂 🙂 Such great advice especially about confidence and not being concerned about what others are thinking. My 7 year old grand daughter helped me last week finding the smiley faces. She had so much fun doing it. She was telling every one about it.
Awww, that is so sweet! I’m glad you were able to do it together.
🙂. I have to agree that comfort is key to almost everything when you reach middle age and beyond!!
Good advice – and cute, comfortable looking outfits! 🙂
🙂 Great advice! I especially liked your swim suit comment. Yes, get over yourself. Nobody cares. Have fun!!
Great information Tania. 🙂
😊Today’s advice to fantastic! Some We need to be reminded.
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CUTENESS!!!!
Great post for us older ladies. I had a mini skirt on once and my mom said to me; it’s your daughter’s time for short skirts,you had yours already.
Leave it to a mom to say something like that.
🙂 Sage advice Tania. Wear what’s comfortable, what fits and has colors that make you happy.
😊Love those green pants!
😁I love this post so much!!!! Very empowering ❤️
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These are great tips for summer dressing. The slip shorts have been a lifesaver (or thigh-saver) for wearing skirts and dresses in the summer!
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🙂 love the embroidered sleeveless top!
🙂 I bought the floral split neck elbow length top and I love it. Thanks for the info.
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You chose the nicest combos and always look together
🙂 good info
🙂 I found 2.
🙂 love the white tank dress
Found it.
😊 Tania, you’re so right about other people having more to do than analyze our bodies in our swimsuits (but I’m still a bit self conscious). And we also have more fun things to do than analyze others, right?
Would you mind sharing the inseam length on the Amazon shorts set in the first picture? It looks like a good length for me, but I’m not sure. Thanks!!
Melanie, I’m not sure, but I think it is around 6 or 7 inches.
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Always a great reminder when you tell us to embrace the body we have and ignore the size on the tags!
🙂Love this post I have always been afraid of linen and the wrinkles. Comfort is also key for me!
😎 lived this post all the cute outfits I wear a lot of dresses in the summer and i put the slip shorts under them also. Makes me feel more comfortable in case of a gust of wind 😃
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Skin care from chat? R+F? I’m so confused. It used to be such a big deal. I had a couple friends that were so “loyal.” Now nobody talks about it.
I still use RF, but I haven’t talked about it in years. It is not sold in Ulta, so it is easily accessible for everyone. Part of my job is to try new clothing and products. That’s why I asked Chat for a recommendation.
I’m retired so tshirts and shorts are summer essentials combined with cute sandals.
Found it 😊
😊great tips! I’ve been telling my daughter and dil for years to wear what you like with confidence and you’ll feel great! It took me a long time to realize that
😊 Tania, I love your sense of humor! I read your blog every day. It makes for a good start to my day. I loved your comment about the Chat recommended skincare better make you look like you’re 40 soon ! Also your hair sticking up was so cute! I like this post, it is hard knowing how to dress but you point out things we all worry about and shouldn’t.
😀 all of these are so pretty. I especially like the navy shorts with white top a d blue trim.
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😎 Great thoughts!
🙂 you are right about comfort.
:)I do feel I have to cover up my skin with capris and sleeves but good for you not caring what others think. You do have great legs and arms!:)
🙂 I like the white dress.
Found it. I have a a crinkle topper that i have never worn because I am not sure what to wear it with, other than a dress. Suggestions?
It depends on how fancy the topper is. I wear toppers with jeans and a tee, and even with shorts.
Tania, those slip shorts are a total game changer!!! I wear dresses all the time, and they are so light and comfy!!! Happy Tuesday❤❤❤
😃 All great points, Tania! Your style tips are the greatest!
I’ve never heard of slip shorts!!! I have some “ spanx” style shorts but they are hot and uncomfortable most of the time! Thanks so much for this tip- I’ve already put in my cart 😍
😀 Found it and you are right on in this post!
😊What a great blog!
Love this post; so helpful and something I will refer back to:)
Thank you for the ‘Summer Skin’ comments! It was the confidence boost I needed as I hit my late 60s!
😊 great post today, Tania. Excellent advice. Nothing looks as pretty as being confident (and comfortable) in your own skin especially in the summer 😎.
😊 I’m all about comfort too. Especially in the heat we have had. So many great outfit options.
😊 Love the white dress and short set!
😊 I love linen in the summer! I will have to try the brighter colors.
:)I’m all in for comfort but I still want to look stylish. You show outfits that do both. Thanks
😊Yay summer! I like the turquoise tank dress.
What I learned about summer style – accessories and little details matter a whole lot more, because the outfits are simpler. I always felt “boring” in the summertime, because all I wore was a top and bottom (usually shorts and a tee or tank), no sweater or jacket, few to no accessories, and I always felt like something was missing. I don’t remember when or how, but somewhere along the line, I learned to pay more attention to things like jewelry, shoes, a good mani and pedi, etc, to make my outfits more “complete”. Et voilà, I went from feeling “boring” to feeling stylish. That and there is no reason whatsoever to wear uncomfortable clothes and shoes. Ok, and good skin care is key, because makeup is worn much more lightly when it’s hot out. 🙂
🙂 Great insight.. I love the “no one is looking at you”! True !!
😀Yes to all of these!
😀 Love your 11 things! You look great in the bold colors for sure!
😊. At 68, I still can’t put on a swimsuit!
I agree completely. I don’t think about what others are wearing or how they look in something. It took me a while to realize that others don’t typically care what I wear either.
As long as I feel good about what I wear, I don’t worry.
🙂 🙂
🙂 Good thoughts, and timely, this is a hot steamy summer. Have a blessed week!
Great post. Sound advice and so true. Thank you 😊
Love your posts and I found the 😊 today!
🙂 I’m late to the linen party but am loving the one dress I have.
‘Confidence is the best thing to wear’…..GREAT advice Tania!!
: ) Still working on the sizing up part but practice everything else.
🙂 I completely agree with you that comfort is important. The older I get the more sensitive I am to how clothes feel. I like your suggestion of wearing bright colors.
Tania,
Thanks for my gift card! It sure is fun to wake up with a notification that I won!
😀 Found it! I agree 💯 Comfort is KEY!
🙂 Good advice on wearing a swimsuit!
😊Love the white dress!!it screams summer !!🥰
My grandmother used to tell me you don’t wear the size tag on the outside!
Exactly!
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love the pjs
🙂 So many nice items and suggestions!
🙂 Great tips that I live by! And all the ladies at the beach are either worrying about the kids or stressing over how they look in a bathing suit to even give you a second glance. <3
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I like the crinkle topper from Kohl’s but it’s sold out.
I agree Tania, the older I get the less I care what people say about what I wear. Especially on vacation where I’ll never see them again!
😀 very pretty you look great in that white dress and with all your skin care
😊 very much enjoyed your post this morning. Lots of really pretty clothes.
Like the dresses you style:)
Great article! Linen blouses are itchy on me so no more linen tops. I really like the no-iron tops I buy from Chico’s – tuck it in or not. Looks great worn on top of pants. I purged a lot of stuff from my closet recently and most of the linen blouses went out. At this age in my life, comfort is key.
😊. Your choices are perfect. Really like the navy short set.
😀the best tips and advice!!
☺️ Love this and agree with it all except the showing your skin part! haha Still haven’t turned that corner yet!
lol! 😂
🙂 Found it. I am in my 60’s and follow many of these suggestions.
🙂 So many great items in this post! Thank you!
Great tips! 😊
Love the white tank dress. Can you give info on the earrings you’re wearing with it?
Sure, they are from Amazon. https://amzlink.to/az0WgMdK0m1J0
I agree with everything you said.
You look nice in all these outfits.
About the chat skin care—what happened to the RF you were using? Do you no longer use those products?
I still have them, but the only thing I’m using right at the moment is Lash Boost and the Redefine toner. I want to see how these Chat products work.
Found it 🙂 I bought the shorts to wear under dresses! I love them. Thanks.