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How Do You Act When No One Can See

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I don’t know about you, but when I was a child, I wanted to have the power of invisibility. I might have watched too many cartoons in which you could become invisible by putting on a cloak, but the idea was intriguing. Dreaming of all the things I could do if I were invisible became a pastime, and even thinking about those dreams makes me smile.

I would imagine my mom’s confusion when invisible Tania walked into a room and moved items around. Nothing would ever be where she left it. Or, maybe I would open the refrigerator and take out the ice cream for a midday snack. She couldn’t tell me I would ruin my dinner if she couldn’t see me.

Playing tricks on my sister was high on my “invisible to-do” list. She was a thorn in my side when I was young, and since I was the older sister, I had to be nice to the baby. Well…invisible Tania would have gotten payback for all the times she embarrassed me, which was pretty often!

Sneaking candy and sweets to eat, pestering my family, and walking into rooms to listen in on private conversations were things I would do if I was invisible. But I can’t remember ever wanting to do “nice” things if no one could see me.

Invisible, Tania could have done chores like making the beds or doing the dishes without anyone knowing how they got done. But where would the fun have been in that??? Mom wouldn’t have known it was me, so she wouldn’t have told me I had done a good job. If I was going to do chores, I wanted my work to be acknowledged.

Isn’t that how most of us are, even as adults? We want to be invisible and keep all our sneaky and naughty deeds in the dark, but we want any good deeds to be out in the open for everyone to see. But that isn’t what Jesus wants us to do.

Matthew 6:1-4 NIV

1“Be careful not to practice your righteousness in front of others to be seen by them. If you do, you will have no reward from your Father in heaven.

“So when you give to the needy, do not announce it with trumpets, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and on the streets, to be honored by others. Truly I tell you, they have received their reward in full. But when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, so that your giving may be in secret. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you.

Jesus tells us that our Heavenly Father sees what we do in private, even if others don’t. He also sees what we do in the open and why. He doesn’t want us to announce at the top of our lungs that we gave to the poor in order to get a pat on the back. In my opinion, He isn’t saying you can’t do good deeds when someone is around. I think He is saying not to do a good deed in order to get glory.

Doing good deeds in front of someone can be encouraging. One of my favorite commercials was about good deeds being witnessed by someone who, in turn, did a good deed for someone else. Those good deeds were done from the heart, not in order to boast about it on social media.

So, invisible Tania needs to stop sneaking ice cream from the refrigerator and, instead, make donations to the poor. While she won’t get an “atta girl” here on earth, she might get a ‘Well done, good and faithful servant” from the Lord.

To GOD Goes The Glory!

Have A Blessed Day!

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43 Comments

  1. Lol, yes. I wanted to be invisible too to pull jokes on my siblings. As the babies of the family (I’m a twin), we were constantly getting tricks played on us. How fun it would have been to snoop on my big sisters or follow my brothers on their adventures without being told to “get lost” or “you’re too little, a girl, etc.”. And of course when doing good things, I wanted acknowledgment. I like the pay it forward commercial too. It’s all about our heart’s motivation, isn’t it? Have a wonderful and blessed week, Tania.

    1. I’m glad I wasn’t the only one who wanted to be able to be invisible. Lol!

  2. Lisa Mary Luciano says:

    Doing secret good works goes against a 21st century mindset — but God’s way of doing things were never trendy anyway. Whatever I’m naturally inclined to do, God’s way is probably the opposite.

    1. You are right. Our human nature is not usually in line with God’s work, it takes effort on our part.

  3. Motivation and integrity. We had a conversation with our grandsons this week about the mouth exposing what’s in the heart. Invisible or not, were eventually seen for who we really are. Thanks for being real… not invisible!

  4. Jan Canapp says:

    Amen, great message to remember.

  5. You have made a beautiful point. Sometimes it is nice to hear about people just having a kind heart. You surely do!

    1. There is a difference is bragging about something you did, and sharing to encourage others to do it also.

  6. Love that Tania, such a wonderful message!

  7. Thank you for this reminder!

  8. Joyce Van Koevering says:

    I just love all the typical things you wanted to do when you were invisible. Such a kid thing. But like you said we want to hear “Well done good and faithful servant”

  9. Phyllis Martin says:

    I can smile too at this thought. I was the same, but I also thought someone else might be invisible watching me when I didn’t know it!

    1. Yikes, I never thought about someone else watching me…except for Santa Claus and Jesus.