THERE IS NO ME WITHOUT YOU
It is so good to finally be sitting at my kitchen table, with Lucy at my feet, and working on the blog. I have to give a shout-out to Joe who actually had the house pretty clean. Normally, he will punish me for being gone by leaving dishes everywhere, clothes on the floor, and the trash that needs to be taken out. I think he missed me this time because not only was the kitchen countertop clean and clear of dishes, he had even cleaned out the refrigerator. I told him that he might have messed up since I will be expecting this kind of treatment from now on.
I asked him what he wanted me to cook him for supper and he told me not to worry about it. He said that he knew I was tired and that he would pick something up from the Chinese Restaurant on his way home from the airport. He is almost done with the new paint job that he and a few of his buddies have been doing on his plane. He goes to the airport every night to “supervise” and to rub on his baby. Years and years ago when he bought his first airplane he would go to the airport and wash it at least once a week. He was constantly waxing or washing that plane. We nicknamed it “baby” because he doted on it so much. I even laughed at him once and told him that he was going to rub the paint off of it. This plane that he has now must have been someone else’s baby since it was in bad need of a paint job. Now he will have to see if this thing will still fly after all the layers and layers of paint that he has put on it.
As you can see, it is still in progress but I know that he would love hearing all of you brag on how good it is looking. Lol!
I have no idea why that I have been in a gray mood lately. Everything that I have ordered has either been gray or cream and neither of those is colors that I normally gravitate toward. I am blaming it on the changing of the seasons and all of the fall colors. Last year I was in a purple mode. At least this year it is neutral colors and they will go with a lot more things. This cute and cozy sweater has a twisted detail in the front to give it some style. It almost looks like I am doing a half-tuck to the side. It is extremely soft and I love the way it feels when you are wearing it. The 3/4 sleeves are perfect for this time of year since they are not too hot and keep you from getting too cold. This top is machine washable and I am wearing a size medium since it was suggested to size down. Here is the link to the top which comes in several colors. 
I didn’t want to do a pop of color with this outfit so I stayed in the same color family with my jewelry. My Judy earrings are a gunmetal color with a filigree design. This is a nice mid-size earring and they are very lightweight. The Jazlyn bracelet is one that I kept meaning to order all spring and I just got around to getting it recently. I liked the neutral colors of gray and black with just a hint of gold and I also like the little tassels for some added texture and variety. This is a magnetic bracelet so it is super easy to put on and take off. I have been celebrating my 3 year blog anniversary by offering a free piece of jewelry with every 50.00 purchase (excluding taxes and shipping) for this entire month! Go here and have fun shopping! Make sure that you pick a party with my name in it so that I can track the purchases. You will love the new fall collection! I placed an order while I was in New Orleans and I can’t wait for it to arrive.
These website stores are really starting to get on my last nerve. I am sure that they want us bloggers to link to their clothing but by the time I order something and get it on the blog they have already sold out. If you are a buyer for a department store, order more inventory!!! These plaid pants are by Wit & Wisdom and I loved them. I am not saying anything else about them since I feel like it is just rubbing it in your face since they are already sold out. Instead, I am now on the search to see if I can find an alternative for you.
I am trying to get back in the habit of wearing ankle booties. Everytime that I put them on I feel weird like they just don’t belong on my feel yet. Lol! I see women wear them all summer long but I have never been able to pull that look off. That doesn’t mean that I am willing to give up though, so here are my Marc Fisher black leather booties with a silver buckle. These are a couple of years old and I am currently searching for a new style. All of the shoes below do come in the color black even if that is not what the picture shows.
When I arrived on Wednesday morning to start a full day of Rodan + Fields training, I wasn’t sure exactly what to expect. One thing that I didn’t expect was for all of the women in this company who have already hit the TOP of the pay grade to be greeting us as we walked in. They all had on t-shirts that said, “there is no ME without YOU” and then they clapped and cheered for us as we walked in. It really started the morning off in the most positive way. Then, the entire convention was centered around how much they appreciated each and every one of us. They went out of their way to tell us that every time that they got an opportunity.
NOW, I want to make sure that you know how much I appreciate YOU. Just like the t-shirt said, THERE IS NO ME WITHOUT YOU!!!
So, this entire week, I am going to be asking a different question and everyone who comments will be entered into a drawing for a Vince Camuto Vegan Leather Tote. Today’s question is: who do you appreciate? Is there someone in your life that you would not be “you” without “them?” Give them a shoutout today!!!
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There’s no me without my nearest and dearest girlfriends. They laugh and cry with me. They keep my secrets and fears in the vault. They join my pitty-parties, and invite me to theirs. They lie to me when I ask “does this make my butt look big?”
I would have to say my parents. They have helped me and my twin sister through some really tough times. Divorce, home invasions, kidney transplant, lyme disease, single parenthood, etc. I definitely would be divorced a second time had they not always been there for me and my son. Even now my mom drives my son to college classes everyday because there is no parking. I can’t do it because I still work. They always sacrifice and give to others. Both my parents are amazing examples!
Joe’s plane looks amazing just as you do. In answer to your question first and foremost there is no me without Jesus Christ. My earthly yous would be my husband and my kiddos. Through the good, the bad and the ugly we’re always a team.
You know this is kind of hard for me because I have never had a great husband like Joe that I could continually depend on, so I’d have to say its my son, Matt! Hes been an encourager, protected me against “the wolves”, cheered me on and come to my aid a million times when something was broken! I couldn’t make it w/o him! He’s the best son ever! I love that fall outfit and am a bug fan of those soft sweaters! Earrings and necklace are so cute too. I’ll have to remember those plaid pants and outfit when it gets chilly here! Still in the high 80s!
Love the outfit!! My “You” is my mother..she used my rock.
My husband, is my rock .. u always look beautiful ?
My mother is definitely the one who made me who I am today. She has set the example of what a wife, mother, aunt, grandmother, and friend should be. She is a God fearing woman who is always faithful and taught me to be the same. She’s there to listen and give advice if need be. She’s my rock.
That’s a really great saying. My “there is no me without you” would be my grandma. She raised me and set my foundation. Sadly, I lost her at an early age but always remember her hard work. I hate to think what life would have been like without all her love and guidance. I pray she knows.
God – I am nothing without him. Joe’s plane is sweet!
The day I realized I was totally and completely in love with my husband, was the day I received the greatest gift from God. We’ve been married for 38+ years and I can’t imagine what my life would be without him. And, since we are into cars (“hot rods”), I know the work that goes into a paint job, and Joe’s plane looks awesome!
Small planes scare me although I raced cars for nine years… Go figure! I know what it’s like to have a husband who has another “baby” and one that needs painting. It really is pretty! I’ve always been into grey, but am working on getting more color into my wardrobe. Plum has been a good color for me.
My appreciation goes to my family. All of them. Crazy, selfless, gets on my nerves 90% of the time, family. They have helped me so much since my husband passed away four years ago and I love them to pieces.
My parents were my hero’s. Miss them terribly.
This is a great looking outfit! And tell Joe his plane ✈️ looks terrific and he’s doing a great job!
My “no me without you” has to be both my husband and daughter, Pat and Jolie! We are a tight team and they support me and are tolerant of my ventures!
So glad I found your blog a year ago. Enjoy it so much.
My best friend and husband who always encourages me and taught me to relax and let go of many things.
I appreciate my children because they have made me the Mom that I am today
Joe’s plane looks great! My son is an airplane mechanic so he can appreciate the attention to detail! My “me without you” would be my husband. Married 34 years! He’ s perfect for me and I know God had it all planned. Two great kids together and 2 grands! We can finish each other’s sentences.
Although my husband and my parents are so very dear and precious to my heart, I am totally nothing without the constant grace, love and presence of my Lord Jesus!! Without Him, I would be lost!! So thankful for His presence and boundless love that carries more through each day!??❤️
I love your plaid pants. Ha, especially since I have Scottish/Irish ancestry. I appreciate my husband of 37 years the most. We’ve been through thick and thin together. And he’s been here to care for me through countless medical issues the past decade or more. I can’t even imagine my life without him.
My “there is no me without you” without my husband. We’ve been together 40 years, married 38 and he’s been my biggest supporter all along.
I wouldn’t or couldn’t be myself without my husband of 2 years John. I spent 62 years learning from mistakes so I could meet him in Gods time and we could complete each other.
I have to give God the credit for who and what I am today!
Love your outfit. You look great! My go to person is my hubby of 46 years. He is undoubtedly the most kind, gentle, and patient person I know. He has always been there for me and worked hard (still working) to provide for our family. Love him! BTW I still am not getting your Saturday weekly newsletter. I have signed up twice, and checked junk mail but I get nothing. If you can check on that for me I greatly appreciate it. Thanks for all you do!
Love Joe’s plane – I thought of “Sky King,” too!
Also, love the gray twist top!
There would be no me without my husband who is supportive in everything I do. We’ve been together 42 years and I can’t imagine life without him.
Mine would be my mom.
I would say my parents. My mom and dad helped me become the person I am. I lost my dad last year and it’s been hard not having him around. I would also say my husband. We have grown so much over the years on our own and with our family of 3 girls and we celebrate 25 years today!
GOD is my answer. He has carried me, sometimes kicking and screaming, through my life when he wasnt walking beside me.
That’s a really great question. I would have to say my paternal grandparents. Although my parents divorced right after I was born, it was my father’s parents who showed me unconditional love as a child and always made me feel safe. They taught me how to love others. I’m a grandmother today, but miss my own grandparents every day. I’m grateful for their shinning example.
Love this outfit. A blogger I read actually had a dupe for the top. Target has almost identical top that is so soft for half the cost. Love the pants. I hope they come back in stock. Love the plane. Would be exciting to fly where you want to. My me without you person is definatly my husband. He brought me back to life after a bad divorce. He supports me in my decisions and has shown me the true person I am. I wouldn’t be where I am today without him.
My “there is no me without you” definitely is my husband, the love of my life! He is my encourager, my best friend and has stuck with me through many surgeries, including breast cancer surgery in 2010. ♥️ Our love story has lasted 41 years and we are as much in love today as when we were married… maybe even more. He treats me like a queen! I’m so thankful he is mine and I am his and we get to do life together.
I too have been a quite follower and really enjoy ur fashion inspiration and love ur Sunday posts. There is no me without Jesus, simply and emphatically! My daughter and husband mean the world to me but my Jesus makes me who I am. Blessings!
Good question! There are many, many people who have influenced me over my lifetime. My Dad though was a constant as I think of his “words to live by” He died in 2008, but I can still hear him say “just do the right thing”. Those words have never let me down♡
The first thing that comes to my mind is my grandchildren. Without my five beautiful grandbabies I would not be “Nana”. They are truly a gift from God. I just found this website a few days ago and was excited to see all the beautiful outfits and style information!
My husband, he is very thoughtful and protective.
I have been a quiet follower from the start and love waking up to outfit ideas for my work day. Your Sunday posts are also inspiring.
Just this morning as I spoke to a co-worker about my husband’s upcoming quad bypass surgery, I said, “I don’t know who I’d be without him…”. When I read today’s post it was like divine intervention that all would be good and that my prayers are being heard.
I’d love to win the bag but more importantly wanted to say thanks for words I didn’t even know I needed to hear. We never know the impact we have until someone tells us.
Ps..that bag is gorgeous!!
I wouldn’t be where I am today without many amazing people, but I have to give a huge shout out to my two kids. They truly are my reason for being.
I wouldn’t be where I am today without many amazing people, but I really give a huge shout out to my two kids. They are my reason to be in this world, and I’m so stinking proud of them.
I have to say that would be my mom. She passed away 5 years ago, but she’s still with me every day, in my heart.
There’s no me without Jesus! Next would be my super husband and then my family.
Where did you get that necklace? Love it so much!
I have that exact top. I got it in my first Trunk Club box. And I appreciate my Mom. It may sound trite but I really do. She knows what to do and say when I need her most.
I’m in my mid-50s and very blessed to have both my parents. Years ago, when my husband left and my health failed, they walked through that hard time with me, never leaving my side. Now in happier, healthier times, they share in my joys and triumphs, no matter how large or how small! I’m convinced I would not be here today without them. Also, they treat my little shih tzu like a real grandchild! I melt watching them love on him! I try to tell them and show them every day how much I love and appreciate them.
I love this outfit! It is really flattering on you! I wish the leggings were not sold out. The airplane is looking good. We had ours repainted two years ago. I swear my husband went over it with a magnifying glass to make sure its was perfect. Honestly I am just so glad he has a hobby that gets him out of the house and keeps him active.
Hi Tania!! My no me without you is definitely my husband Mike! He supports me and loves me through every step of our journey together as husband and wife. His heart is full of love for me and sometimes I don’t feel I deserve it, but his love is unconditional. He has taught me how to love.
Wow…there are soooooo many people who have made me who I am….first off is my Lord and Saviour…praise be to God….who gave me my wonderful parents…and immediate family…brothers, (no sisters) aunts, uncles, cousins…..then came lifelong friends..and my fantastic husband and Best friend. He is my rock and I would give my life for him!!!!! Third time was the charm for me!!!!! ??
I love love love your blog and your videos are fantastic!!! I think you are a hoot!!! Just good people!!! Thanks!!!!
I appreciate my friends from High School. I went to an all girls Catholic High School and graduated with 250 awesome and inspiring women. We are all in our 50s now and stay connected on social media. These ladies all look like they have not aged a day since graduation. They are professionals and wives and mothers and sisters and daughters of all different ways of life…but they all have a positive outlook that is the same. Maybe it was all the faith-based teaching we got during those high school years that binds us together. I have to give my girls a big thank you for always being there!
My “no me without you” person would have to be my husband. A couple years ago he had an outpatient surgery that went horribly wrong. He was in and out of the hospital from December 19, 2016 until October of 2017. I was told twice that he probably wouldn’t make it through the night. God is GOOD though and I have my husband back 100%!!! During those long days and nights when he was so sick I realized how much I REALLY loved him. I didn’t fully appreciate the way he loves and takes care of me until I almost lost him.
My “no me without you” person is my gloriously patient husband of 32 years. We have grown up together (as we were babies when we got married) and he has been there for all of my personal and professional growth. I am the woman I am today because of him. He has made me a wife, a mother, a daughter in law, and hopefully soon a Mimi. The support and love I have received from him is irreplaceable. I only hope that I have given as much as I have gotten.
There is no me without you person is my husband!!! He allows me to be me and supports 100% of the time with whatever I choose to do. He has been my biggest cheerleader and my best friend!!! I appreciate and love him more than he will ever realize!!! Also — the plane looks awesome – way to go Joe!!!! ?
I would not be me without my wonderful husband. He is my biggest cheerleader and my best friend. When I face difficulties of any kind, I know that he “has my back”. He is the love of my life, the father of my children, and I thank God for him every day.
Love the outfit! The plane is beautiful, my husband would be so jealous. He’s a pilot as well.
I appreciate my husband. I am so thankful for that man, for his steadiness in our chaotic lives, for his incredible love for our children, and for the way he consistently and constantly demonstrates that he adores me.
My Mom and Dad, taught me how to stand on my own. To be honest caring and respectful. They were very loving but firm. I always loved to wear what was in style. So in my middle school years I would come home and my Mom would say change your clothes to help with dinner and my Dad would say what clothes. My pea coat and whatever I was wearing was the same length. Lol. My Mom has Alzheimer’s and dementia now and I love her more than ever. My Dad passed away 12years ago
Now it has been my turn to be my Mom’s voice and stick up for her care. Love your outfit and jewelry looks wonderful Tania. ? Kathy
Who do I appreciate? My husband, Bruce. Life is a constant roller coaster for all of us, this I know. Sometimes the roller coaster is the kiddie version, sometimes it’s the Screaming Eagle. Right now I am on the Screaming Eagle and it’s on warp speed. Bruce keeps me grounded, covers the bases and always loves me regardless of how stressed I am-stress does NOT come out in a nice way for me…..Could NOT imagine life without him in it.
My parents made me who I am today by teaching me how to respect people and letting me know that you need to work hard to reach your goals!
Your enthusiasm for life and all your pursuits is inspiring.
The people who make my life have meaning are my husband of 43 years, my sister of 62 years and my babies of 42, 41, 39 and 33 years. So….there would be no me without them. I lost my best friend a year and a half ago to brain cancer. Part of me is gone without her.
My parents and my husband. My parents made me who I am today and my husband makes daily life happy and content.
I love this outfit and I too gravitate toward grays. This outfit looks so comfy. I checked out the top but after reviews I can’t decide what size to order. And I have to say there would be no Me without my hubby. He just “gets” me…always has and always will. And…I have to tell you that whenever I am away looking after grandkids, my house is almost cleaner then when I left. The dishes are always done and the counter is clean and the bed is made.
I can’t imagine my life without my husband. He is my rock, my best friend and supports me no matter what I may throw at him.
This outfit is another home run for me!! Love everything about it including the background!!
You must give Joe an “A” for effort, for tidying up. I know that their tidy and neat is a little different than ours! ? Now let’s talk about “baby”. You’re not going to keep her in the corner are you Joe???? She looks so shiny and new. All that effort really paid off and she looks great!
I have to say there is no me without me and all the people I have met in my life that have influenced me in one way or another to make me who I am today!! I love my family!! A shout out to my daughter, hubby and 94 year old dad whom I love to the moon and back. I would like to also thank you Tania!! I really do enjoy your daily blogs! ??
Don’t even have to ponder this question -There is no me without my wonderful , best in the universe , funny , intelligent ,understanding ,long suffering, protective and trusting husband, Eddie.
Oh and I am so jealous of those pants .
There is “No Me without Jesus Christ my Savior and Lord” throughout my life many role models have influenced me but my life changed when I asked Jesus into my Heart !
I enjoy reading your emails and the Inspiration you give to me and so many others by being “real”
For sure it would be my sister. Although there is over ten years difference in our ages and we really didn’t get to be friends until we were older. I was married at 20 she was only 10. I can’t imagine me without her.
I totally agree about this online shopping. Sold out seems to be the norm.
My husband would drool all over your husband’s plane. Lol. He flies the remote control planes but would love a full sized edition!
I am so thankful for my parents. They raised us to work hard, be respectful and loved us unconditionally! They are both gone and we miss them every day.
Your outfit is adorable! Love The jewelry!
There is no me without Jesus! Without Him I would be nothing. I love your blog, Tania!
Many people have helped me along the way. My grandmother was a big part of my early life and even though she is no longer here, I catch myself repeating many of the things she used to say. I wish we had lived closer as my children were growing up so they could have had that too.
My husband who is so supportive and always has my back. We have been through hard times and really good times and he is my best friend through it all.
Love this top-every color is beautiful, but the gray looks fabulous!
I would not be me without my girls and my husband. Having a family has deepened my faith, changed my focus, even my career!
Glad you made it home safely! Blessings!
P.S.—Joe’s plane looks great-very classic!
Hey, Joe, what a good-looking plane that is, with its clean lines and aerodynamic design. (How was that, Tania?)
Morning! Love the sweater!
I’d give a shout out to my husband. Life is better with him!
There is no me without You!! What a great statement. For me there is not me without my daughter, she has been with me through alot of things even though she is critical at times she is still always there.
As I read your blog, I looked at Joe’s plane and was amazed. It is beautiful! He should be proud. Then I admired your outfit and loved it from earrings to booties. I don’t know what diet plan you are following, but it is working “gurl”.
There’s no doubt, it is my mom. She raised me with a warm heart and open arms. She let me know when I was wrong for sure, but she did it with kindness. She passed away nearly three years ago but I know she is watching over me still.
I would say my brother and sisters have influenced me the most. They are always there for me. I have 3 older and 1 younger whose life experiences we share. I don’t think I would be the person I am if I had been an only child. I totally understand where Joe is coming from. His plane is beautiful and brought back good memories of my Dad and his Cessna. He spent many hours with friends and his plane. Loved flying. I am sure mom felt a little jealous at times but in the end it was a great hobby for him through the years. He would visit us when we lived hours away and buzz the house for my boys. Oh how I wish he could do that now since he is no longer alive.
Good morning!! I love this outfit!!! I locl the gray top but I ordered in the lilac. Not sure how “fallish” that color will be but it’s so pretty!! And will look awesome with my new purple Plunder pieces ??
There would be no me without my bestie Karen…she gets me, everything about me! She’s my sister from another mister!! I have several “sisters” and Karen is one of the most well rounded, grounded, grace filled women in my life. She gives me advice on professionally, personally, and we lilo to thrift and shop together. She’s loving my Plunder adventure and supports me all the wat. She and I have been friends since 9th grade. I love her bunches and wouldn’t know what to do if she wasn’t there for me.
God is my “Go To” and I am in awe of how He takes care of me even in the small details of life.
Great outfit!
This is a nice outfit but please don’t give up on colour, it suits you. It is your use of colour that attracted me to your blog initially. You especially rock purple!
I am lucky to have had parents and a husband who have loved and supported me so there wouldn’t have been a “me” without them. ❤
I would have to say that my mom is the one and only person that has been there for me. There would definitely be “no me without her”. She sacrificed so much when I was young, and we were very poor. She continues to sacrifice daily, as she is now 73 and raising my brother’s 9 year old.❤️ I love my mom.❤️
Good Morning Tania! First off, there’d be no me without my mom who, unfortunately, passed in 1989 at the age of 53 and my dad who we lost in 2013. I’m blessed to have had them as wonderful parents as well as my husband of 37 years and 2 great kids, and of course our little Yorkie Gus. At 60, I’ve also had the good fortune to reconnect with several old friends. I love your gray and black outfit as those are the colours I always gravitate towards…you look great and I enjoy reading your blog each day!
You look fabulous in that outfit!
It is difficult for me to chose one person, because I firmly believe that everyone who has touched my life (whether good or bad) has made me who I am.
My husband is my anchor and best friend. I can’t imagine who I would be without him.
God!! There is no me without Him!
My parents are the ones that influenced me and gave me a strong foundation.
My sister! She has always encouraged me. I am recuperating at home and she takes great care of me!
First of all I would like to tell your Joe that his plane reminds me of “Sky King” . Do you remember that TV show? You are probably too young. But Joe’s plane is awesome. My second person I would like to mention is my Son who without him I would not be me. He never knew his Dad because my husband died in a car accident when he was 10 months old. So my little baby boy gave me a lot of love and strength. Thank you Tania for your devotion to this blog. I look forward to it everyday.
Tania, you look so good…you just GLOW from the inside out! The pants are so flattering on you!
I would have to say I owe who I am today to my mom and dad. They truly set the example of being the best parents! They were so loving, yet firm, hard working, supportive and so giving of themselves. My grown children have such warm memories of their grandparents that I can only hope my grandchildren will have the same warm memories of their grandma and grandpa.❤️
I appreciate my husband. The day I meant him was the day I found my best friend and greatest supporter. He has always worked hard to make sure our two girls and I are well taken care and he never lets a day go by that he doesn’t express his love to us. He is my rock and I would not be who I am today without him.
My ‘no me without you’ has to be my parents. They brought me up, moulded me and ensured I had good values of life. Sadly they are no longer with us. Now it is my hubby who supports and encourages me with everything (including my blog 🙂 )
I would just like to say how well you are looking, I am sure you have lost quite a bit of weight as you are looking fabulous. After 4 weeks away I am back at square 1 trying to loose my weight but getting lots of encouragement and support once again from Mr Mc